Sweetness, just like in the movies

The sweetest things in life are free.

I have been dying to give a spiel of the sugarly, ant-infested, most remembered moments one could ever imagine crossing into. That each tick of the clock seems to hasten simulateneoulsy with the beating of your heart.. just like in the movies.

I love Adam Sandler. He is just too endearing and charming that even if he isn't that much good-looking (yeah, he's just cute.. but he is appealing!), he really could make a woman be swept off her feet. And how would a guy can really sweep off her feet? He just have to do the sweetest things. Really? Yeah. Certainly, they just have to. I do not have much expertise on these, or experience, or license to publish these, but here are just a few I may be making up. Or could've picked somewhere, from someone, at sometime. Just like in the movies..

1. even if they say flowers are impractical, they're sweet. they'll love it. they feel beautiful holding a bouquet or even a one-stemmed flower.
2. touch is the closest and the most subtle way towards intimacy. an embrace to congratulate. a hug to comfort. squeezing her hands to make her feel secure that you'll be with her, in her worst times. a tap in the head.
3. gentle men are understandbly rare and acceptable that being that is not an innate. however if they open doors, or give up a seat, or walk on the right side when crossing streets, are totally a plus.
4. a man who picks and drives her home by the doorstep is an effort. even if he drives 5 minutes or an hour. it is well-appreciated.
5. a snail mail. that despite the advancement of technology, going back to the basics is always better.
6. a call in the wee hours of the morning. i dare say it is something sweet because guys don't really like too much talking. the effort of listening is even far wayyyyy worth commending. i believe, in recent statistics, that men really have a short attention span.
7. remember dates. 'nuff said:P
8. singing. even if his vocal chords doesn't permit it. hehehe. that's why Adam Sandler is just too endearing:)
9. a surprise! they just love surprises. and girls are too damn good smelling a cooking surprise. hahaha. so for them to be surprised is a hard-earned work.
10. and more importantly, it all boils down to effort. an "A" for effort.

i say that they are sweet. it may or may not mean more than anything. but hey, girls just twitch with a little smile on their face:) with or without meaning more than anything. just like in the movies.

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